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STEP #3: SOLWTION • Identify any areas where you both agree. • Don't give in or come to an agreement too ("Sounds like`x'is important to both of us.") quickly without careful thinking • Exchange ideas on actions that might help • Don't rehash the conflict without moving to the situation. ("How about if we tried`x"'?) solutions I • Look for actions that will work for both of • Don't blame one another you ("Would`x'work for you?") • Don't be disappointed if the discussion does • Keep the conversation focused on today and not lead to an agreement. Don't make the j the future,not the past. ("'Ibat's what I have problem worse by overreacting in frustration. done in the past,what would be helpful going forward?") i I • Propose solution(s) that meet your interests and theirs. STEP #4: AfGTREEMENT �,.�.'s�i,:r,`s,�••�.,•g%,as sy�"�,;,a�;u %�w�_ �.,,,,a:,;: �`?�•r. ;^=k�-.��eg� a,-'�`�,�µ'k`{' _ �-•--_�P-.;: .;-: e H-e.:;,. _ �:p��e,�.M: __ - _ 68 ,S? +M"-,;R �- _.5r�r �>$z �?: ,- -ws - aS' _ _ _ _ '•F•' �,�t�^„`*f�.. 6:�, h:�� +' -� s :- Y�.�Y-'Uv :::,.�"s4'�• ei��:'�"'-e$ ,��'";- - fM� v�'{ - -:.1.' :� - a} � - -_,ro.Sr_ 3,a��:.=r'., •°. �:,;5.,�'.�, '� i-•�`7.=��- - ��$i'�..ia�� 'i`2';.� '�'fis e.L-. 3 T 'ice' 4' - • Check to be sure you are in agreement about who • Remember to hold up your end of the will do what and by when. agreement. •'Ihank the other person for their willingness to •Watch for opportunities to recognize when listen to you and work with you. the other person follows up as agreed. L MEDIATION SERVICES for Anoka County is a community-focused 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. Contributions are very much appreciated and are tax deductible to the fullest extent allowed by the law. We help people work through and resolve their disputes. 3200 Main Street NW, Suite 210,Coon Rapids,MN 55448 www.mediationservice.org everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing •d Autl)orjaines Baldwin ©Mediation Servicel9r Anoka County,2015